Giving Experiences Instead of Things

November 27, 2007 RSS Feed Print
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One of my favorite blogs, Zen Personal Finance, has a great post today on why the author, Justin McHenry, doesn't want a ton of Christmas presents this year. He writes:

Don't get me wrong. I want stuff just like anyone else. But I don't want much. And I don't generally want things that anyone would buy me for a Christmas gift. I usually want either big things that are too expensive for anyone to buy as a gift, or very small things that most people would think are insubstantial to give as a gift. No one's going to spring for a trip to Europe for me, and probably no one's going to think that Post-It Notes are a sufficient gift (despite my love of them).

What I don't want are things that clutter my life, like random electronic gadgets, or clothes that I like just enough to keep even though I wouldn't have bought them myself (and also would have some guilt getting rid of). I don't mean to be Scroogey about it; I appreciate the sentiment. I just don't want the stuff.

McHenry says he is asking people to either make a donation in his name or to buy him "experiences," like tickets to an event. It sounds like a great idea, but will people be able to restrain themselves from buying the more traditional gifts?

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My husband is about to turn 50 and I wanted to do something very special and memorable for his birthday. He is REALLY NOT a party guy and hates attention. So I came up with the idea of kidnapping him and taking him to various locations throughout town (diner, bowling alley, pumpkin patch, hockey rink, coffee shop, pool hall etc.)I matched family and friends with different locations and had them waiting for us to participate in a 30 - 60 minute activity with him. I paid for all the activities (which was way cheaper than a huge party!). All I asked folks to bring was one balloon so he could gather them up along the way. I also bought a bunch of Groucho glasses (with the big nose and fake mustache) so everyone, young and old, could create a funny and memorable picture. At home with the balloons and photos he'll be reminded of all the great people in his life who shared his special day.

This took a lot of planning and coordination on my part (because I also had to have a Plan B for all outdoor activities) but no more than a regular surprise party.

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Kimberly Palmer, senior editor for U.S. News & World Report, writes about making smarter financial decisions. She’s the author of Generation Earn: The Young Professional's Guide to Spending, Investing, and Giving Back.

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