Online Shopping Raises Ethical Dilemma

I find that I use the internet to investigate purchases and competitive prices, then look at our local businesses to see if I can purchase an item immediately (without having to pay for shipping), more often than I purchase online.

Sue of PA of PA 10:48PM December 25, 2007

If the bookstore owner is that concerned, he might think about reducing his prices where he can still make a profit but still give the customers a good deal. When you buy on line, you have to pay shipping. He must be charging quite a bit to exceed the cost of the online prices which also includes the shipping charge. He could also put the books in glass cases which may turn some people off.

Ronald R. Flinders of MO 11:55AM December 15, 2007

It's important for consumers to understand that they have tremendous power. If they don't support the local neighborhood stores with their dollars, those stores will be gone. And if those stores are part of a local shopping neighborhood, their closing will impact the entire community. If that doesn't matter to folks, then the Amazons of the world may make sense. But if does matter, you can't have it both ways.

Decide what's important -- if it's price alone, fine. But if living, or aspiring to live, in a community enhanced by local stores, restaurants, and services is important, you will need to support that community with your dollars. The good news is that those local businesses give back to the community on average 60% more money than chain stores or internet sellers, so you're also investing in your quality of life.

Hut Landon of CA 1:31PM December 14, 2007

As someone who does about 65% of his non-grocery shopping online, I can tell you that this is something that I do somewhat often, mostly with big ticket electronics.

It's worth noting though that I wouldn't do this with a small business, not even a little bit. I really don't feel bad doing it with big box stores like Walmart, Target, Best Buy, and Circuit City.

In general, there are three reasons that I do this;

1) Service: I find the service at most stores these days abysmal. Staff are rude, disrespectful, indifferent, and ignorant about their products. While it's not entirely their fault, if my actions put these types of people out of business or out of a job then they have only themselves to blame.

Sometimes I WILL shop at a brick and mortar store where the service and knowledge of the staff is excellent.

2) Price: Yes, I care about getting the best price for what I'm buying. Call me a "selfish, cultureless, bargain shopper" if you want, its just propaganda and mud-slinging. Modern life in the NYC suburbs is expensive, and the middle class is struggling. My 1 bedroom apartment in the suburbs cost twice as much as my sister-in-law's 4 bedroom house on a half an acre in Seymour, Indiana, but they've had to go on WIC and she's got no one to watch her kids when she works. Sure, I could buy a 3 bedroom, 3 story condo for just a little more an hour and a half away from where I live now, but that's an hour and a half away from my job and family. That's just ridiculous. My wife and I combined earn an income just shy of 6 figures and we don't spend frivolously. I'm not singing the blues, this just is what it is.

If you want to call me selfish for trying to make my dollar go farther (sic), I don't care if you stay ignorant. I'll keep calling it trying to be financially responsible.

3) Availability: Look, if a store doesn't have what I need or am looking for then I will find it somewhere else. If I don't need or want it right away and you can get it in two days, then we're good if you're store is in a convenient location. I'm used to waiting 1-5 days for online shipping most of the time anyway. Most brick and mortar stores these days offer 1-2 weeks availability minimum for special orders, in my experience. Why would I go with that option, while paying more, and wasting time and the trip (including pricey gas) when I could get it delivered to my home or office for a much lower price (including shipping and generally avoiding tax, which I do at all costs)?

My wife special-ordered a movie from a local FYE to send to her stepbrother stationed in Iraq. She prepaid $6. This was over 2 months ago, the movie never came in, and calls to the store are met with rudeness and indifference and have proven fruitless. They won't refund the money over the phone, and calls to their general customer service go to an answering machine (not voicemail) and are NEVER returned. We could go down there to get our $6 back, but we don't normally go to that shopping center so we'd be wasting time and gas. I'd rather just write off the $6, and maybe do a chargeback. I know that's not technically a small business, and MOST small businesses would probably do better by us, but that's just part and parcel to the problems with shopping brick and mortar retail these days.

If that store goes out of business and the local employees are left without a job, they've earned it.

Michael of NY 12:09PM December 14, 2007