Dealing With Crisis

April 23, 2008 RSS Feed Print
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I received another E-mail in response to our recent stories on 20-somethings and personal finance. This time, it was from a woman in Cheyenne, Wyo., who says young people today don't know what "real" debt is.

She writes that she and her husband are in their 60s and 70s, respectively. They had run their own headhunting business but came upon hard times during the slowdown after 9/11. While they had been earning between $70,000 and $90,000 a year, they soon ran up credit card debt of $100,000 while trying to maintain their lifestyle on much less income. By 2003, their credit card debt had reached $180,000, and they had used up all their savings. They refinanced and settled with some of their card companies, but there's still more debt. The woman, who asked to remain anonymous, writes:

The phone rings constantly with calls from computers representing collection agencies. They go unanswered. Meanwhile, [I] continue to keep getting lucky enough to earn enough money to pay the mortgage and keep alive a couple of credit cards and not fall behind in any other monthly costs such as utilities, supplemental health insurance, etc.

But the computer calls from India and elsewhere continue regarding severe delinquencies of 10 credit card accounts.... [I'm] considering a plane ticket to an unknown island and disappearing.

It is quite a disturbing story. As always, tips or words of wisdom from those who have been there are welcome.

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Jimmy, you raise a good point. While some expenses -- such as a mortgage -- are difficult to change during a financial crisis, others -- such as clothing, food, entertainment -- certainly can be. I don't know enough about this couple's situation to say for sure what "maintaining their lifestyle" meant to them.

Kimberly Palmer of DC 5:20PM April 23, 2008

I have never been foolhardy so I find it very hard to be sympathetic to people who get into debt through their own folly. When I lost my job, my wife and I stopped almost all extra spending. We canceled all subscriptions, memberships, etc. Our money went to food, transportation, and mortgage. We never ate out. We agonized over every purchase.

Your post said "they ... ran up credit card debt ... trying to maintain their lifestyle." So it begs the question: Have they completely eliminated their extra spending? They probably feel they shouldn't have to give up anything at this time of their life. But the fact is they are poor if they can't pay their debts. They need to match their expectations to their income.

What does it mean to "keep alive a couple of credit cards?" Are they still putting things on credit or have they switched to all-cash? It is stupidity and arrogance to keep charging when you have an outstanding balance, even if you keep up with the payments.

JimmyDaGeek of MD 4:10PM April 23, 2008

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Kimberly Palmer, senior editor for U.S. News & World Report, writes about making smarter financial decisions. She’s the author of Generation Earn: The Young Professional's Guide to Spending, Investing, and Giving Back.

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