Defining Your Dream Life

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Dear Alpha Consumer,

I am interested in taking more control of my financial future, but I feel that I'm more ahead of the game then some of my peers. I have a 401(k) that I contribute to, I save regularly, and I am pretty frugal—I learned to use the library instead of constantly buying new books and I love consignment clothes shops—you can dress for less AND have stuff that everyone else isn't wearing.

I don't feel like I'm doing enough , though. A lot of the advice I've found for people my age is for those who have done nothing so far which isn't really me. About eight months ago, I was $3,000 in credit card debt. I had a very restrictive budget and am now debt-free, save my student loans and car insurance. Each week I saved $10 toward various long- and short-term goals—a car, a new computer, vacation, savings, etc.

What advice would you give an already financially aware 20-something person? Should I be saving for a down payment on a home? A future wedding? Retirement? I have almost $5,000 in savings, divided into long- and short-term savings. Short-term savings is really what I put aside to help me get me started in June when I get an apartment and take a summer vacation, but my long-term savings has been a very gray area for me. What exactly am I saving for? Should I put some aside for emergencies and some for long-term goals, or would you suggest just regularly saving into an interest-bearing checking account? Help! I feel like I'm screwing up , but I don't know how!

Your dilemma raises some of the most important questions we can ever ask ourselves: What do I really want with my life? If I had unlimited amounts of money, what would I do with it?

From how you describe the situation, it sounds as though you are not really sure of those answers yet. You are obviously doing a great job with the basics—paying off debt, saving up for a rainy day—but as you suggest, that's not really enough. Because now that you're on top of your money, it's time to take it the next step: using your money to create the life you want.

To help figure it out, try sitting down with a blank piece of paper and brainstorming different ideas. What is your dream life? What do you think about while you're in the shower or doing the dishes? Do you want to take more trips to South America? Or sign up for classes on pottery? If you're a more visual person, flipping through magazines and tearing out the images that appeal to you most can work, too. If you cut out lots of photos of homes, perhaps you want to nest and invest in your kitchen. Or maybe you'll be drawn to photos of nature, and it's time to buy a tent and go camping.

Once you figure out those goals, then you can start working toward them. If traveling is high on the list, then you might want to start saving for a big overseas trip. Or, if you're a beer fanatic, the money could go toward a tour of the Trappist monasteries. Perhaps you will decide that you want to save it all in an emergency fund, so you can have peace of mind knowing you will be fine if you lose your job. Your financial goals will depend entirely on what kind of person you are, and, of course, everyone's will be different.

Meanwhile, while you're still daydreaming, make sure the money is earning interest in a savings account, so you have as much as possible to put toward your dream life, however you define it.

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Thanks so much for those great ideas, Johanna. Saving for a home is a big one for a lot of people -- that's where my savings are going at the moment.

Kimberly Palmer of 10:20AM May 01, 2008

I would say that getting a jump on saving for a down payment on a home is a good idea, even if you have no particular plans to buy a home in the near future and aren't 100% sure that you want to buy one ever. I think it's only a matter of time before a 20% down payment becomes the norm again, and 20% of the cost of a home is an awful lot of money - several years' worth of savings, at least. If you wait until you're sure you want to buy before you start saving, you'll then have to endure several years of wanting to buy but not being able to because you don't have the down payment ready. Then, in the future, if you decide you don't want to buy a home after all (which is a perfectly legitimate option, despite what the realtors tell you), you can use the money for something else.

This is what I'm doing, anyway. I guess you could make the same argument for saving for a big wedding, too. But in my case, I'm 100% sure that I *don't* want a big wedding (and maybe not even any kind of wedding). So that simplifies things a bit for me.

Also, make sure you're contributing enough to your 401(k) and other retirement accounts. 10% of your salary is a good amount, but if you can afford to contribute more, do it. The more you save when you're young, the less you have to save when you're older.

Johanna of MD 9:02AM May 01, 2008

That's great, Veronica! Your loan repayment program sounds ideal, and I love the idea of saving for a "hypothetical" wedding and house - it's great to know what you want, and knowing definitely makes it easier to get there.

Kimberly Palmer of 9:26PM April 30, 2008

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Kimberly Palmer, senior editor for U.S. News & World Report, writes about making smarter financial decisions. She’s the author of Generation Earn: The Young Professional's Guide to Spending, Investing, and Giving Back.

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