5 Reasons Not to Buy Your Daughter Pink Legos

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Thank you for such a thought-out response, Amanda! great points.

Kimberly Palmer of DC 2:58PM April 11, 2012

I am a feminist, a journalist and a parent and I have interviewed Mads Nipper along with other LEGO designers. I have also done my research and I have bought the new LEGO marketed towards girls.

Some of the LEGO research into how girls play was very interesting - one facet being that they found girls like all the pieces that come in separate bags to make up the individual components - unlike the boys bags which, though there may be several in a set, hold pieces in a non linear way.

They also discovered that girls like to play with narrative in a different way to boys, being more in control of their story.

I bought LEGO Stephanies Pet Patrol, who rides a quad bike and LEGO Olivia's inventor workshop - where Olivia is surrounded by tools and makes her own robots. Hardly gender stereotypes.

I like the fact that these positive role models come in recognisable female toy forms, so that the empowering nature of what they do is not eroded by how they look to young girls who have already, unfortunately, been trained or may naturally think that beauty is an important aspect to a womans' success(sadly this is still true in adult life and to represent success outside of this sexist and stereotypical norm could well be off-putting to a large proportion of young girls).

I dislike the pinkification of young girls as much as the next feminist but LEGO did a lot of work and research and brought in female designers to work on these sets. They also live in a place that has a better record on equal rights than the US or the UK, including a higher percentage of political representation and equal maternity and paternity leave of a year divided between both parents with affordable childcare.

Women do look different to men. We have curvier and softer bodies. It doesn't make us less able to do things and I believe the LEGO sets for girls represent that.

Amanda Brown 1:49PM April 11, 2012

I think that it is a good idea to buy more gender-neutral toys both to encourage children to be creative individuals, and - as stated in this article - because classic toys tend to last longer. Also, you can pass down gender-neutral toys to either a son or daughter or niece or nephew. It just makes sense! When you don't get into the whole "girls toys/boys toys" debate, kids can get back to being kids and stop worrying about if they are playing with the "right toys."

ImpulseSave of CT 12:18PM April 10, 2012

I think the article misses the point completely. Nobody has ever said that girls cannot play with LEGO Star Wars or Harry Potter. Or play baseball or become a scientist. What LEGO has simply done is create a playset that resonates with girls that like pink and purple. It's called choice. And by not offering those playsets before, girls and boys had no choice.

I can honestly tell you that my daughter loves the Friends line because it's speaks to her in a way that Star Wars doesn't.

Don't limit your children to stereotypes also means letting them choose the colors, themes and characters that they like. Not just what you think they should like.

The best part of this is that it's still LEGO. It teaches systematic problem solving, creativity and all in a fun way.

So, kudos for LEGO for stepping up and offering something for other girls that like the color pink and purple. It' not stereotyping but rather opportunity for more kids to enjoy a worthwhile and creative toy.

L Tuck of MA 10:24AM April 10, 2012

I am so happy that there are companies that make gender specific toys and don't get on the political correctness bandwagon. I want my boy to grow up being a MAN and my girl growing up to be a WOMEN.

Johnny Speed of NY 1:22PM April 09, 2012

I love how this article completely forgets to mention that one of the sets is an inventor's workshop AND that the characters in these sets run their own businesses. These building sets appeal to young girls, offer them a view of the world where they can thrive independently, and encourage them to build creatively with an open-ended building system. This article seems to be written by an employee of melissa and doug, a company which doesn't make timeless toys.

Steve of WA 2:00AM April 08, 2012

I agree. I recently bought the Harry Potter Hogworts Castle set for my Best Buddies daughter (aged 14) - She loves it! - And not a Pink Brick in sight! - And FIY - in the Harry potter Books - Guess who is the Brainy One of the Trio?? - Hermineo Granger - of Course! Lol

Andy of DC 4:59PM April 07, 2012

II absolutely love the new Lego sets for girls- and guess what? I would let my boys play with them too!

Oh and PS- I OWN a toy store and people WANT pink legos and purple castles and everything else previously designed without a girl in mind... I'm 32 years old and I LOVE pink!!! Great Job Lego:-)

Lindsay of ID 12:50AM April 07, 2012

Thanks for these great comments, everyone! I love hearing the perspective of other parents on these topics.

Kimberly Palmer of DC 4:47PM April 06, 2012

My daughter was very excited to see the new line. She enjoys her general bucket of bricks, but after seeing her brother and his large collection of toys designed to do battle (aka the Ninjago and Hero Factory/Bionicle lines) she felt like the 'sets' were not ever "for her." She is not, by any means, a standard girly-girl as a rule. Yes, she likes painted nails and can waste hours of my life looking for the right outfit. But she'll wear the outfit she finally picks out climb a tree. She loves at-home science experiments and dinosaur bones at museums. She's as happy at the bug museum with the giant, creepy spider as she is with the butterflies. She's what I call "a girly-girl in touch with her inner tomboy." And yes, she wants Legos that do more than blow things up and battle. She wants things in purple. She wants girl characters that look like girls not bricks and she wants buildings that are not castles and not construction trucks. She is almost 8 years old. She's long stood in the Lego aisle and lamented "Why don't they make any sets for me?!" Now she has them. There's not wrong with these sets. The key is to parent your child and give her exposure to a wide scope of things. The "You can be anything" message should never drown out "And if that anything includes pampering yourself at the salon, that's fine too." Be anything should never mean "anything but a princess." Girls should be empowered to have choice - and striping choice because we fear gender roles is not the right path. I am a strong, female leader, raised by a strong female leader. I also spent hours with my Barbie and 'at home perfume maker set.'

Sandra of NJ 1:54PM April 06, 2012

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Kimberly Palmer, senior editor for U.S. News & World Report, writes about making smarter financial decisions. She’s the author of Generation Earn: The Young Professional's Guide to Spending, Investing, and Giving Back.

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