10 Ways You'll Erode Trust

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Making a commitment to another person creates a state of emotional reliance and
trust in that individual. When your position is switched whether in your relationship
or on an issue without notice: the trust which prevailed is instantly shattered. A form
of hypersensitivity and anxiety is born once the betrayal has initially occurred, and the
chances of recovering trust in that individual and your relationship with them is highly
unlikely. The individual who switches loyalties in any manner, unknowingly will pay
the price of no return to that previous state of trust and relationship.

Ann Norberg of CA 11:13AM September 11, 2011

Well true on many things but we do improve by learning from others as best we can. Improvement in ones self is the main goal and we all fall short, trying to improve and catch our goof's as best we can one day at a time.

Rick of CA 6:19PM December 15, 2009

...sorry but I think we have gone too far in the "imorrality hole" to be ever come out of it. We have had a generation or two of "me first" and thus have now left a generation of our offspring that will alway only look after itself, regarless to how they do it.
I may sound pessimistic but truly that is how I feel each day as I deal with people who are in trustee positions.

Salim Jaffer Kanji 11:27PM November 21, 2009

The Bible clealy states the golden rule which is do unto others as you would have them do unto you! I believe that we are to treat people the way that we want to be treated! If we are going to be misleading to people that is something that "GOD" is not pleased with! We are to live as Christians each and everyday!

Valerie Williams of MS 11:57PM July 18, 2009

The Bible clearly states that we are to follow the Ten c
Commandments. One of the commandments is that we should not lie. I know that none of us are perfect but, we must be careful about what we say and what we do!

Valerie Williams of MS 11:41PM July 18, 2009

Ours is based upon lies and deception....wanna help change it?
Never give up on yourself or the power to change others.

David Grady of ME 10:33PM July 18, 2009

I can relate to these 10 tips. I am really amazed how the workplace and the marketplace is a place of fear and people who are paralyzed by fear. I am a child of the most high god. I say FEAR NOT! I believe that you need to walk in the anoiting and the power of the holy spirit. We need to bring hope and joy, love, kindness, and all of the gifts of the spirit to the marketplace to give others hope. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to share love and hope to those whose are crying out. I am really happy to have some time to regroup and focus on the next assignment to come.

Lisa Diggs of CA 1:28AM July 08, 2009

nice, really nice!

Invexixheli of AL 3:00AM April 17, 2009

In the last eleven years I have worked with four school district supervisors, and w/o they were all more than willing to deceive in order to gain more funding, cut costs, or better test scores. With today's economic crisis I am fearful of what our leaders will be willing to do. If we are the models for our children, how will they become men and women of integrity.

Linda Kile of NV 11:35PM March 04, 2009

I can relate to your situation! There are many females who for one reason or another feel threatened even by your mere presence. FEAR NOT! God gives out the gifts and talent. I am a child of the most high. If anyone has a problem with that, then I am sure they will be judged for their evil and wickedness towards the kinder, gracious, innocent souls when Judgement Day comes! They are just demons doing Satan's work. I finally was blessed and left that job. Guess what? Every day is a holiday for me! And the witches are still being the old, ugly witches that they want to be!!! HAHAHAHAHA ~ GOD IS GREATER! I thank our Lord for all my blessings and miracles!

Avelina Martinez of CA 7:51PM January 18, 2009