Help! I'm Being Micromanaged!

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One of the most common complaints that people have about their boss is that they're being micromanaged—their work is being overly scrutinized, the boss is checking up on things they don't need to check up on, and they generally feel they're not trusted.

First, let's define micromanagement. There's a difference between hands-on management and micromanagement. A micromanager dictates exactly how to do something and watches over every little step in the process, refusing to truly delegate any decisions—and, in the process, lowers morale and productivity. But good hands-on managers do get heavily involved in ensuring that employees are clear on the desired outcomes, and they do check in on progress (so that employees can make needed adjustments before it's too late). So, don't confuse being hands-on with micromanaging.

However, if your boss has crossed over from being hands-on into micromanagement, one of two things is going on: (1) Your boss is micromanaging you because you have given her reason to, or (2) your boss is micromanaging you because she's a micromanager in general.

In situation No. 1, people rarely ask, "What have I done that's inspiring this scrutiny from my boss?" Instead, they're often just annoyed by it, which prevents them from being able to take the actions that could change it. If you drop the ball on things more often than very occasionally, forget details, don't follow up on things, miss deadlines, or produce work that requires a lot of changes from others, a good manager would get more closely involved—because ultimately the manager's job is to ensure that the work is done well, and in this scenario, a good manager would have reason not to go on faith. (Of course, if this sort of scrutiny continues to be required in the long term, a good manager would also address the problem in a larger context—meaning helping the person improve or transitioning them out.) So, the first step is to ask yourself some tough questions to figure out if the problem is actually you.

But if you're confident that your boss has no reason to doubt your work and/or your ability to stay on top of it, then this may simply be the style she uses with everyone, without adapting based on need. If this is the case, try talking to her. Give specific examples of projects where you felt you could have worked more effectively if you weren't on such a short leash, and ask if there's anything you're doing that makes her feel she can't trust you and how you can work with more autonomy. Suggest other ways to keep her in the loop, such as weekly reports and/or weekly meetings, so that she doesn't feel she needs to check in as much. If she's resistant, suggest she experiment by giving you more autonomy on one specific project to see how it goes.

In the best case, this approach can persuade a boss to ease up and find more appropriate ways to stay involved. But if nothing else, this approach will at least tell you whether or not things are likely to ever change. And if you learn that they're not, you can then decide if it's something you're willing to live with or not.

Alison Green is chief of staff for a medium-size nonprofit where she oversees day-to-day management of the staff as well as hiring, firing, and staff development. She is working with the Management Center to coauthor a book on nonprofit management. Her writings have been published in the Washington Post, the New York Times, Maxim, and dozens of other newspapers. She blogs at Ask a Manager.

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I started with my company managing a group of individuals in an off-shore office. We have 61 offices, one large one in Europe. When the government decided to remove tax incentives for companies with overseas operations, they shut down my office and I had to go back to square one. My boss (whom I like and respect a lot) told me it was told it was 'temporary' until they can create or move me elsewhere. I did my best at this job, and was almost always at the top of the daily production reports.

Well the boss that was going to find a different position for me left, and a new one took over. The new guy put a girl in charge who always used to "challenge" me for top production lead. Now that she's in charge, she's doing everything in her power to micromanage me. She does real-time audits of my work on a daily basis... there are 20 employees in my section of the company and I am 100% sure she doesn't do this for everyone, as it's a time consuming task. At first, I was correcting her because she'd audit me for things that were completely incorrect. I think that bugged her, but hey- I didn't want to have a bad audit score attached to my name when I rarely make a mistake. My mistakes are usually being TOO detailed, rather than the reverse. In an government-scrutinized and government-regulated industry like mine, anyone would prefer more detailed to less.

I asked my new boss to consider moving me to another area once I finished training the new hires. I also 'created' a job with descriptions and everything for a position which I feel we absolutely need to continue to be competitive. He completely brushed me aside.

I have been in the same position for about 6 years, while my micromanager boss has been there for about 3. I have no problem with promoting folks who are genuinely more qualified over folks who've been there longer. But she's not qualified. She'll audit me for asking for something one week, then audit me for forgetting to ask for it next week (note: not forgotten, just trying to follow her prior audit requirements).

The economy sucks big time right now and the only offer I've had the last 3 years I've been looking for a new job was a 60% pay cut, which I just couldn't afford to do. Looking back of course I wish I'd taken it... but I digress. I started off on the wrong foot (unknowingly) with my boss and now I can't escape the micromanaging. I've turned into an unhappy, snippy, easily pissed off person. I hate who I've become. I sure hope my micromanager is enjoying herself though, destroying a life to make yourself feel better is such a noble task (*sarcasm*). A job isn't worth destroying your spirit, but it's too late for me. If you have a micromanager who makes you cry or causes you to be depressed every Sunday night through Thursday night, leave. It's not worth it. Take that pay cut and work your way up at a new company.

Ray of PA 9:38AM August 16, 2011

Here is a funny video about micromanaging. Take a look and tell me what you think!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGm2P146txM

Zac of AR 2:24PM August 09, 2011

As an employee, I was hired because I was the best candidate for the position. I have excelled and was given excellent reviews, horrible raises, due to economy. But hey my boss drives in with a brand new bmw 2010 totally loaded, huh, Im struggling financially and let them know, (I did this in a calm professional manner) since I have said this, I feel I am a value to the company and management and would like them to consider raise. Now since I work for a small company with no HR and lots of gossip, by management I am now written up as insubordinate and if I request any future earnings from the company I will be terminated. Im in customer service have been for 30 years. My calls, computer every keystroke is now watched and monitored. I think this is what people are talking about. Not managers that need to prod people on or hands on, love those kind of managers as they are always available to thier employee's. What I dont like are a little gang of managers that think they can run roughshod over employee's and get away with making the employee's life a living hell. Work is stressfull enough without being micromanaged by managers that should not be in managing positions as they are abusing their authority. The only person who comes out the loser in these situations is the employee.

Bob of CA 10:25AM July 29, 2011

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