7 Mistakes Recent Grads Make at Work

im young, so my ideas must be bad. by the time i get to be old and my ideas are heard and valuable, ill be so out of touch that every idea will be wrong and unusable.

jr. associate jr. of NY 11:18PM October 20, 2008

RE: Dating a co-worker. The problem is not working with someone you date, it's working with someone you used to date. Getting your honey where you get your money is a bad idea.

Annette of WI 11:51AM October 16, 2008

I've been fired from every single job that I have had since I graduated from college. Well, actually two jobs (that I was fired from), but I resigned from my second job-and was recently laid-off from my most recent job. Nevertheless, the third job-that I had-I was fired because I basically did something (called a client/partner) on the phone and after I got off the phone, my boss was like, "DO NOT EVER DO THAT AGAIN, PLEASE ASK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING....YOU'RE NOT ASKING ENOUGH US QUESTIONS."

The next day, it was all over. I was taken into a small conference room and spoken to by my supervisor and her boss. I was given an "exit interview". This all happened around noon time. Like an idiot, I asked them if they wanted me to stay until the end of the day, which was around 6:00pm. They said no, "You can leave right now actually, unfortunately we no longer have a need for you."

It was devastating. I learned my lesson-the "hard way"-from the experience. Always ask questions, but unfortunately I was afraid to ask questions because I knew right away that I was hired for a position that I wasn't-necessarily-qualified to do.

Unfortunately, I went from $50K/year salary to a $25K/year salary in the blink of an eye. It was terrible. I am still trying to get my life back on track. Unfortunately, they don't teach you a lot of this stuff in many colleges and universities-that "ship" happens to the best of us.

My advice to young people out there is to read job descriptions very carefully and when it says, "must work well in a team environment", be prepared to get "intimate" with people immediately. Unfortunately, working in an office or many jobs-for that matter-you can't hide like in college. In college, you can say, "well, I don't really like this person, or I don't really like their perspective/views on life, they're rude, etc., so I was just hang out with them." Tough "ship" in the work world. You have to learn to get a long with everybody. You're no longer on the football team, cheerleading squad, baseball team, cross-country team, etc. Unfortunately, the "bonding" needs to happen much quicker in the work world and you don't have time to develop relationships like you do in college. In the work world, there can be a lot of a%*holes. Afer all, it is work. Even though, you would like to be well-liked, etc. Unfortunately, there are many people that do not want to be friendly-they're there to work and that's why it's work.

Tom of NH 11:20AM October 15, 2008