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The 5 Feeblest Excuses for Failing to Job Search

April 2, 2012 RSS Feed Print

Are you the person who scrambles for new work when your current job goes belly up? Or maybe you're sick of your boss, workload, or lack of advancement opportunity? You might whip up a resume, slap some content onto Facebook and LinkedIn, write a panic-driven networking note to long-ignored colleagues and friends, and impatiently check off the onerous tasks you've been ignoring.

When it comes to focusing on your job search, there are millions of feeble reasons for not conducting it successfully.

Here are five terrible excuses job seekers give for not being prepared for their next big move, as well as ways to combat them:

Excuse No. 1: I don't have time. In a job search, carving out just 45 minutes each day to draft and execute a plan can make all the difference.

Do you somehow find time to watch your favorite morning TV program while enjoying a cup of coffee and Danish? Then try turning that program off for a few months. Focus on plotting a course, writing a proper resume, crafting a unique LinkedIn profile, researching companies, and getting your networking efforts in order.

Before you know it, after a few weeks or months of this daily and focused effort, your job search will gain the muscle necessary to lift your career to a new level.

Excuse No. 2: I can't do this on my own. You don’t have to! Whether tapping into a myriad of complimentary Web resources, or investing in modestly priced careers books, an abundance of job-search resources exist at your fingertips. Careers blogs and articles with advice on how to build your resume, best prepare for an interview, and network can all be found at your local library or bookstore. And don't forget about the many resume and career coaches that are available for hire. You never need to feel alone in your job search.

Excuse No. 3: Job searching is boring. Doing the same old thing over and over will get boring and net the same old stagnant results (or lack thereof). Stop aimlessly wandering the Internet, posting resumes to job boards, and Tweeting and Facebook-ing your job-search woes.

Instead, un-suction yourself from your computer keyboard and start flexing your muscles—literally.

Find offline activities that get your juices flowing. Join a local LinkedIn group and attend their next get-together. Join the area chapter of an industry association and volunteer to help. Meeting new people in your areas of professional interest will not only spark your creative and intellectual juices, but it will also increase the odds of meeting that one contact who can link you to your next job opportunity.

The added value: You'll enjoy receiving a warm smile, firm handshake, and maybe even a hug or two as you excitedly discuss new goals and initiatives that take you out of your daily routine. Keep experimenting with new motions to move you outside the humdrum of your day and get your juices flowing.

Excuse No. 4: I don't believe in second chances. You've failed so many times in your career that you can't envision it being any different this time, so you just stay where you are, sucking it up and grinding it out at a job you hate. Everyone deserves a second chance and sometimes even a third and fourth. Don't let your past get in the way of your future.

Clear your chi and start with a clean slate. If this means surrounding yourself only with healthy encouraging people who see your positive attributes and want the best for you, then spend time exclusively with them; at least for the short-term while you regain some self-confidence.

Rejuvenate your self-belief and then plow ahead with zeal and vigor. You deserve to control your destiny in a job you love.

Excuse No. 5: I lack self-control. We all lack self-control when we fail to meet our own expectations. Be in charge of yourself, time, and energy. Only you can establish boundaries as to where you invest your conversations, intellectual efforts, and physical activities. Only you can accept or decline that next job offer, filtering your decision through your wants and needs. Using a no-excuses approach in your job search will ensure that time spent in your career transition will be focused, meaningful, and positive. By retraining the way you think, your job-search momentum will increase. And more favorable results will follow.

Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter is a Glassdoor career and workplace expert, chief career writer and partner with CareerTrend, and is one of only 28 Master Resume Writers (MRW) globally. Jacqui and her husband, "Sailor Rob," host a lively careers-focused blog at http://careertrend.net/blog. Jacqui is a power Twitter user (@ValueIntoWords), listed on several “Best People to Follow” lists for job seekers.

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Robbsh41 of NM 2:17AM April 25, 2013

What if it be comes clinical? Depression sets in and you just cant motivate yourself anymore. Your smart enough to know that you're no spring chicken, you interview well, have tons of experience, more than qualify for the position but you just don't get that warm fuzzy feeling when you leave the interview. Not to mention the HR person who just interviewed you is easily half your age, has no clue what half the questions they asked even mean. After a while and you don't have a shot in hell getting hired. It's all more than anyone can take after 100's of applications and the 9th or 12th interview. I have to wonder if when these guys walk into a place and start shooting up the joint if it all didn't start with a bad interview? No, that's not my plan, but I must admit that sometimes, when I pass a bridge abutment, I have to wonder if hitting it at 100 miles an hour would end the cycle of disappointment... You know?

Jp of WV 1:33PM August 24, 2012

My excuse for "failing" to job search is not feeble. It's that, quite simply, my job search has failed. I've been looking for 18 months – well before I needed to make a switch – and in that time, I've only found around 75 companies in my (tiny) city I'm even qualified to work for. Of those companies, I've interviewed with seven, gotten rejected from six, and gotten a offer from one, which resulted in me leaving my previous job only to have the new offer rescinded.

I've reached out to everyone in my network, on and offline, and what's been most striking about my networking efforts is that those who were eager to take voluntary help from me – from writing their resumes, to providing testimonials/recommendations/letters, to getting a foot in the door of any company where I had connections – turned their backs on me in my time of need. My city is so small that meet-ups for my profession scarcely exist, and the few I've attended were populated by similarly unemployed people who can't help me any more than I can help them.

Thanks to the stress of the search, and the stress of working as a serf for Corporate America for the past decade (16-hour days, no vacations, and at times, no benefits), my mental health is destroyed, and I'm also in physical pain, from searing labor-level menstrual cramps, to middle-of-the-night diarrhea, that would likely prevent me from competently working anywhere, anyway.

At this point, I have two options: 1) Work in an illegal, "under the table" profession like sex work, or 2) apply for SSDI. I know to most Americans, I'm a lazy, worthless sack of garbage, but most Americans voted for a country where corporations had more rights than people, so the natural outcome – downtrodden, sick, and permanently unemployable people like me – shouldn't surprise them.

Literally, there is nothing left that I can do to look for work. I don't have the health or stamina to work a throwaway job in retail or food service, and no one would hire a former senior manager whose last experiences in scut work were way back in college, anyway. I read the "pep talks" such as those in this article, and I guess they could help someone who has options, or who hasn't given up, but at this point in my life, I dread getting out of bed in the morning, and sometimes wonder if Kurt Cobain's decision to eat a bullet in his late 20s was a form of rational suicide after all.

I used to believe in second chances, but when you've failed, and been bullied and put in positions of great struggle your entire life, you lose hope. There aren't any more second chances for me. And you may call my excuses feeble, but live a day in my shoes and you'll see that they're not so feeble after all.

Nancy of OH 1:18AM May 09, 2012

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