Resilience isn't the absence of stress, bad news, or difficult decisions. It's the ability to find new strength and bounce back—an essential skill for career success in today's topsy-turvy world.
If you aren't resilient, you will struggle in fast-paced, difficult, and ambiguous situations. If you're stressed, you won't perform your best—and your health will suffer as well.
Lacking resiliency also affects the people around you. It will drain the morale, productivity, and energy from your team or co-workers. Just being around you will increase other people's stress, making them wonder, "Will he be angry, reactive, anxious?" Getting your call, text, or email can turn their good day into a whirlwind of action or drama.
Being healthy, sane, and resilient allows you to bring your best self to the job and be a person other people want to work with—right now and over the long term.
Make these three actions a priority to build your resilience:
1. Take care of yourself. That inner voice that tells you to take better care of yourself is right. When you do, you'll find it's easier to cope with stress, difficulties, roadblocks, criticism, rejection, or change. Consider five types of health: physical, mental, emotional, social, and spiritual.
2. Focus on learning. Another way to deal with stressful, chaotic times is to learn from your past wins. Recall a time in your personal or professional life when you were able to overcome, prevail, bounce back, or rise above a difficult situation. Then ask yourself:
Your own experience can deliver great insight into how to manage your current situation. Find ways to repeat what worked—but also figure out what you could do differently.
3. Get real. Understand that any time you encounter a career crisis or significant challenge, it's normal to experience a feeling of vulnerability. New jobs, no jobs, and crazy jobs will keep you outside of your comfort zone—maybe even for prolonged periods of time. And trying to be sane and resilient during these times isn't easy. Do your best and be compassionate with yourself and others as you work your way through.
But remember, every time you find a way to learn from your tough experience, you build inner strength. When you look carefully for meaningful lessons, you deepen your resiliency reservoir. And with that extra resiliency, you become a more positive and productive person—and your career will benefit, too.
Amy Martinez is a senior faculty member with the Center for Creative Leadership, a top-ranked, global provider of leadership education.