Much is said about the splintering of the American family, but that view doesn't hold up when it comes to taking care of one another. According to a major survey, more than 65 million of us spend an average of 20 hours a week as unpaid caregivers. Looking only at people being cared for who are at least 50 years old, 90 percent of them are family members. Half of all such caregiving is provided to a mother (36 percent) or father (14 percent). Grandparents and in-laws each receive 11 percent of all caregiving, and spouses care for one another in 6 percent of the cases. MetLife funded the research, which was sponsored by the National Alliance of Caregiving in collaboration with AARP. Comparable surveys were done in 1997 and 2004, and the aging of America is clearly evident over the past 12 years.
[See Best Affordable Places to Retire.] More people—caregivers as well as those being cared for—are older. Among caregivers, 55 percent are older than 50 in the latest survey, compared with 47 percent in 2004 and only 38 percent in 1997. Among people receiving care who are at least 50 years old, 31 percent are 85 and up—the so-called "old old"—versus 24 percent in the earlier surveys. Consistent with aging, more caregivers are providing help with basic daily activities:
Nearly everyone aged 50 and higher (96 percent) takes prescription drugs, and half of these people need help from caregivers with their medications. Half of all caregivers also hold full-time jobs, making for a lot of stress. Most caregiving is for long-term physical or mental conditions, and the average caregiving situation lasts 4.6 years.
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More than two thirds of caregivers get help from other family members, although the more stressful role of being a sole caregiver falls more heavily on older caregivers. The percentage of caregivers who retain paid support fell to 35 percent in the current survey from 41 percent in 2004. The survey didn't ask why people had changed their behavior but survey experts said the recession would be a logical cause. Tougher times would also help explain why caregivers with jobs—73 percent of all caregivers—appear to be taking more time away from work to provide care.
While healthcare reform proposals now being debated in Congress would provide some help to caregivers, survey sponsors agree that unpaid caregiving will continue to create stresses on families. If not better addressed, a breakdown in the structure of family caregiving would overwhelm government safety-net programs. "We know we're not going to be prepared for what is being called a looming national caregiving crisis," said Barbara Dillion, program director for the MetLife Foundation.