You're Too Hot for This Job

June 12, 2008 RSS Feed Print

Today's question for J.T. & Dale Talk Jobs (a top spot for career advice):

Dear J.T. & Dale: I have been actively searching for a job for five months now, and can't figure out why I get interviews but no offers. I have even contemplated the idea that I can't get hired because I happen to be a very attractive, younger-looking 32-year-old. Am I crazy for even thinking that? — Jade

It's probably not a question that dogs most of us.

Studies show that good-looking people are more likely to be hired and tend to get better pay, J. T. notes: "So, I'd have to guess that something about your body language or communication style is making people shy away from hiring you."

Dale wisely points out the importance of appropriate interview dress: "You aren't dressing to look your best; you're dressing to make potential coworkers comfortable around you."

When I interviewed Gordon Patzer, author of Looks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined, for a story on cosmetic surgery being deployed to get ahead in the workplace, Patzer mentioned that he sometimes hears from women who claim their very good looks have backfired professionally.

One possible explanation for this: Very attractive people, accustomed to the advantages bestowed by their physical appearance, tend to expect doors to open.

Patzer—much like Dale—agrees that looks, attitude, and clothes should be appropriate to the industry an individual is working, or looking to work, in. Looks also shouldn't be exploited in an effort to get ahead.

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SIRAJUDHEEN of CA 11:48PM September 19, 2008

"also, when you're not attractive, you tend to be bitter towards very attractive people" AND "prettier people tend to know less because they can skate by on their looks" Those two statements I find a little disconcerting to say the least. I get the feeling that an attractive person may very well intimidate his/her interviewer, especially if they are of the same sex and will work in close proximity to each other. If your interviewer's level of maturity or self confidence is substandard, attractive job hunter's will be considered a threat strictly on the "merit" of their good looks. In addition, I feel it is safe to say that attractive persons would and do expect to work equally as hard as any other person in regard to his/her education. Professors don't grade according to students' appearances, they grade on performance.

Jenna of MI 11:22AM July 27, 2008

I am a person who has a JD degree, a high intelligence level, and just happens to be attractive. I have not counted on my looks to do anything for me. I have been told point blank by managers that they didn't think I would be so smart or nice because of my looks. I often have to "win" people over because they immediately think negatively because of my looks. I am now considering surgery because I think I will not get a job in my chosen profession, or be taken seriously because of the size of my chest. Yeah... boo, hoo, poor me.

Penelope of IL 10:28PM July 22, 2008

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