How to Talk to Your Boss

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One of the most regular office puzzles is what we should share with the boss. We don't want to say too much or share bad news unnecessarily, but we also don't want to keep them out of the loop on something they need to know. When it comes to those conversations, employees can really distinguish themselves with over-information and manipulation, or with concise and useful communications.

These tips come from Andy Lester's "How to Speak Manager" slideshow (Lester pens "The Working Geek" blog):

What not to tell the boss:

  • Every normal thing that goes on (unless he wants that).
  • Your problems without potential solutions.
  • Problems you can solve yourself.

What to tell the boss:

  • Good things and their effects.
  • Bad things and how you fixed them.
  • Always say: Should I do X or Y?
  • Never delay bad news hoping it will get better.

There's a phrase for these kinds of judgment calls: You're managing your boss. To some, it sounds straight out of consultant-speak 101, but the idea is that the attention a manager pays to an employee's strengths and tendencies should also be paid by an underling to a supervisor.

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I am Filipino my age is 41 years old. I am now recently reciding in China. I applied this job and the company hired me as Business Manager for furniture manufacturing and interior fittings manufacturer. For al i know this job is more likely with my previous job as sourcing and product development Manager in a furniture sourcing office.

I am now at my Fourth day and i have not recieve my contract to sign and company roles to sign and specially my scope of work.

Now, The General Manager wnats to talk to me, my clue was maybe he wants to talk about my scope of work or maybe he just want to know more about me.

Do anyone of you can gave me some ideas on what to do next or what is my best move to get in this job more and stay longer?

Joselito Agustin 1:50AM November 17, 2011

how do i tell my pastor, he is causing division in my ministry without hurting his feeling. By reconizing everyone except one of the most important ministry in the church, the ushers who work very hard.

elizabeth of GA 1:33PM October 26, 2009

"los felicito por todos somos unos sabios y podemos" <----- Leelo colombiano sabio. Ya...? Pefecto. "Por todos somos?" Para ser un sabio tienes muchas faltas de (coherencia!!) gramatica compadre.

Sergio of OK 7:23PM August 21, 2009

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