I Wish I'd Spent More Time at the Office

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We've all repeated the phrase: "No one ever said on their deathbed, 'I wish I'd spent more time at the office,'" but do we really agree with it?

Lucy Kellaway called it "sentimental pap" recently in her Financial Times column, and I'm tempted to agree with her.

After all, don't you want to take out the BlackBerry and check E-mail during the subway ride home? We could spend the time reading Hemingway or composing sonnets—but we'd rather check in to see if there was any response to an afternoon presentation, or if a client responded to that recent E-mail. It's desire, not drudgery, that drives us.

Brett Favre apparently had his quiet moment at home and screamed "no" all the way to New York.

Aren't all the purpose-driven, parachute-colored, seven-stepped, power-of-positive books meant to help us craft careers that are about more than paychecks and gold watches? Don't we believe that finding meaningful work makes us one of the lucky ones?

If anything, we may say, "I wish I'd spent my time better at the office." Or "I wish I'd moved my office to the beach." Or "I wish I'd telecommuted more." Or "I wish I'd treated my assistant better."

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If you have the perfect job for you - it makes you happy to be doing what you're doing (getting paid to do it is gravy) and your self-realization and self-satisfaction makes you a better person to be around, you might be excused for saying, "I wish I'd only known about this sooner." If you're one of the lucky ones, it's desire that drives you. For the rest of us - we're not driven by drudgery. It's a matter of choosing the devil we know rather than the one we do not. Better to be paid for drudge work than to not have a job at all.

The moral of the story is -- find what you enjoy, do it to the best of your ability, and don't listen to anyone who says, "You should do this because it pays better." As soon as you put money first, you've given away your soul.

Dave of MO 9:51PM March 09, 2009

I wish I'd spent my time better at the office

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SCOTT of IL 5:54PM March 09, 2009

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