Why You Should Ditch the Quest for the Perfect Career

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As a testament to the interviewees said, I have had this window open for a week and have only now been able to read the article. I am stretched while working part-time for a nonprofit, raising a toddler, and volunteering. I cannot imagine working a high-powered job while raising a family.
I wish women had some more appropriate role models; I also wish men who stay at home were accepted into the fold more often. I think you need to decide what is most important to you and focus on that. Many women in my neighborhood have held very high government positions and they waited for a family, choosing to adopt. I could not do that. I loved traveling with my mom when I was in my 20s. I did not want to be breathing through a machine when my son is 30. That's my decision. Others choose differently.
I would like to look back on my life and know I have touched others, and feel proud of what I have accomplished. I try to remember this when I make or look back on decisions (like choosing to stay home with my son). The path may not be easy, but at least I will feel it is rewarding.
Thank you for highlighting a reasonable exploration of women's roles!

Becky Benson-Flannery of DC 9:22PM June 15, 2011

This article have a very practical approach to our lives, i have read in days.So much of uncertainty in life on relationship, jobs, finances..the best way is to keep changing to the constant change and yes live in present indeed.

Niharika of IN 6:05AM June 08, 2011

There's no such thing as a "perfect" anything-- The idea is to find out what fascinates and energizes you, and try to find as much of that in a career as possible. Then balance that with the other areas of your life.

Kristen of CA 3:41PM June 07, 2011