Why Marriage Makes People Happy

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6. Marriage (Primary Symbiosis)
Marriage is one of the most important parts of human primary symbiosis.
A. Origin
Marriage was originated after biological evolution progressed from asexual propagation to sexual one. It is so because the sexual propagation can cope with all kinds of difficulties much easier than the asexual one.
B. Definition
Biologically speaking, marriage is one whole bio-entity or co-body consisting of a couple of husband and wife.
This couple is integrated spiritually in order to keep both their DNA alive in their offspring's body ---- a better new carrier for keeping their DNA alive than both old individuals of the husband and wife.
That is why a marriage couple sleeps in a bed and works as close together as possible.
Also, this is where the kiss, embrace, and etc. come from.
C. Properties
Once married, any person of the couple ought never to cut the whole bio-entity or co-body into two parts with great suffering, that is, to divorce.
Divorce is caused by various kinds of invalid happiness, including extra-marital affair, invalid comparison, and etc.
Divorce not only hurts the couple individually, but also harms their offspring and even the society they live in. Hence, it is not only personal matter but also a social event close to crime to some degree.
D. Mechanism
Marriage woks just as one whole spiritually inseparable biological machine made of two halves-parts.
a. Husband
The husband half is biologically assigned in charge of food-seeking, habitat constructing, defending, donating all kinds of co-body-safety messages ceaselessly to his wife (kissing, embracing, and so on) .
His ability and smartness come mainly from the ceaseless intimate encouragement of the other half of the marriage ---- the wife.
b. Wife
The wife is biologically assigned in charge of the child bearing, child bring up, house hold, and etc.
She transfers all the physical substantial materials from her own body into the baby’s. Also, she exhausts all her spiritual energy to bring up the baby or child ---- the DNA-carrier of both the husband and wife.
That is where her mother-greatness and beauty come from.
Her beauty and virtue are support-enhanced by the ceaseless intimate co-body message from the other half of the marriage ---- the husband.
This is the right way that the husband and wife of a marriage work; and the right way that happy life of the couple comes from.
Then, there will be no issue of gender equality at all.
E. Caution
Never a marriage should be misled by any kind of invalid happiness into invalid sufferings, including the most serious one ---- the divorce mentioned above.
To keep all kinds of the invalid happiness away is easy if a person just understands and believes in the life goal is to keep our DNA alive rather than anything else.
Strictly speaking, this way or mechanism of marriage should be legislated formally. That is, to legislate against treating spouse not as the other half of the whole bio-entity or co-body, no

W. Ying of CA 8:38AM July 08, 2012

There are many elements of marriage that can make you happy and the same goes for making you unhappy. Understanding one another and having the same understandings is important at the beginning of relationships, this includes having the same goals and priorities. Financial stability is another important factor required for marriage stability to be achievable. Have a look at these figures (shocking as they are) they highlight that it’s important for couples to share the same priorities, http://bit.ly/ybbB25

Melanie 8:07PM May 09, 2012

It is my opinion that the word happiness should not be attributed to group, idea, value, social structure but to the individual self and ones attempt to reach the state of content agreement of thought, feeling and accomplished act. Its far from orthodox statment to claim marriage makes people happy. I don't make this statment to down play the inistitution of marriage and its role in genrating happiness, as a matter of fact I am a married man and happy person. When one makes a statment that "marriage makes people happy" it automatically disassociate and negates the happiness of other unmarried but truly happy people. For this true human reality I am beyond doubt certain that happiness is attributed to self and self alone. If there is an SI unit measurment for happiness, I am sure even the longest married couple wound measure slightly variable happiness measurment value even if we establish valid reference range measurment. Its is unfortunate our definition of happiness has been mixed up with money, status, idea etc. In my opinion excitment gets often mixed up happiness.

Marcos of MN 10:34PM May 04, 2012

Happiness stems through marriage and through children because they invest so much time and energy into their children and their marriages. Have you ever noticed that of all the things you get happiness out of its always the things you work hardest for, so same thing by marriage. Marriage is not an easy thing. But the more you invest the happier you will be. If you want to read more on this you should check out http://happinessdirect.com/

HappinessDirect of NY 8:34PM April 15, 2012

The word "happy" refers to "happenstance". Look it up! Happiness is the result of the things that have "happened" to you. If you care for other people, but they could care less about you,then YOU have good character,but bad relationships. Suppose you believe you are happily married,but find out your wife has been cheating on you for years. There goes your happiness,and hopefully,your wife." You cannot serve two masters". In the end,it is always your choice: Happiness,or fidelity to your spouse.

Phil of WA 2:35PM April 12, 2012