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How to Stop Feeling Broke

These eight questions will help put the brakes on bad spending habits

May 22, 2012 RSS Feed Print

If you find yourself nervously checking your bank account balance before payday, perhaps it's time to make some changes. Before swearing off restaurants or cutting up your credit card, ask yourself the following eight questions, which are designed to help get you back on top of your finances.

Do I know where my money is going? Beyond a quick glance at our credit card statements each month, most of us don't bother tracking how we're spending money. That means we might not realize that our grocery expenses have suddenly skyrocketed, or our utility bills have doubled. Using an online personal-financial management tool to automatically track your spending, such as Mint.com or the free tools offered through your bank's website, allows you to figure out where money is going with minimal effort. The programs can also warn you if you get close to your target budget for the month.

Am I focusing too much on the month, instead of the year? Research suggests that people often fall victim to forgetfulness when budgeting by the month. They tend to overlook unexpected and one-time expenses, such as car repairs or gifts, so they underestimate how much they'll need to spend. But when people budget by the year, they tend to factor in those costs. Research by the University of Southern California's Gulden Ulkumen, Cornell University's Manoj Thomas, and New York University's Vicki Morwitz found that college students were about 40 percent off-target when budgeting by the month, but only 3 percent off when thinking by the year.

Do I do something every day that wastes money? It might be a cab ride, lunch at a cafe, or a six-pack of beer. These types of small, daily expenditures add up, and by the end of the month, you could be out $100 or more. (In the case of a $10 lunch on each weekday, that's $200.) Finish Rich author David Bach famously coined the phrase "Latte Factor" to illustrate this idea. He argues that if you invested the money instead of spending it, you could eventually become a millionaire.

Do I know my own weakness? Almost everyone has one. It might be a golf habit, fancy jeans, or nice dinners. Perhaps it's simply buying more than you need when you're out running errands. Money expert Lynnette Khalfani-Cox, offers the following advice: Carry a stopwatch with you on shopping trips. She also suggests bringing a loyal friend on shopping trips to remind you not to overspend.

Am I saving too much? This question might sound counter-intuitivehow could anyone be saving too much? But if you're going into debt to fund your lifestyle and you've already cut back wherever possible, then it's time to look at how much money you're funneling into your 401(k). While it always makes sense to take advantage of matching programs from your employer, it doesn't make sense to save additional pre-tax dollars at the expense of a hefty credit card bill that comes with a 10 percent or higher interest rate.

Is my relationship hurting my bank account? Even if you're on top of your own finances, your bank account won't reflect it unless your significant other is also on board. If you share credit, in the form of credit cards, auto loans, or a mortgage, then any late payment from your partner can also ding your credit report. Marriage can intertwine your financial lives even further. Before tying the knot, be sure to review each other's credit histories, talk about whether you prefer joint or separate accounts, and make sure you are familiar with each other's long-term financial goals. Couples also often get tripped up when it comes to handling money requests from needy family members. Make sure you're on the same page to prevent tension later.

Are the big items dragging me down? According to Elisabeth Leamy, Good Morning America's consumer correspondent and author of Save Big: Cut Your Top 5 Costs and Save Thousands!, it's the big items, not the small ones, that hurt people's finances the most. She suggests focusing on minimizing your mortgage, car, health, debt, and grocery payments. Buying a used car instead of a new one, for example, can save drivers tens of thousands of dollars. Plus, she says, since "cars these days are really well-built, the risk is lower than it used to be."

Am I wasting money by carrying debt? If you're paying down a $10,000 credit card bill with a 15 percent interest rate, then you're paying about $1,500 a year to carry that debt. If you're paying off a $10,000 car loan at 6 percent, then you're wasting $600 a year on interest. If you can find the extra cash, consider paying off those loans so you can stop throwing money away on debt payments.

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Borrow the maximum from a 0% credit card with the longest term, pay off high interest rate debt and then focus on paying off the 0% card. Keep transferring the 0% debt to a new 0% credit card 6 weeks before the old one expires and flips into a high interest rate.

Be sure you never use the 0% for any other purpose; just pay the debt off. Be sure the fee is capped at $50 or $70, don't pay 3% fee or that is like paying interest. Get the longest term offered and switch to another one at least 6 weeks before it expires.

D.L. of MD 8:14PM June 12, 2012

I have my online bank send me a daily statement to let me know how much credit card debt I'm racking up, and how much balance I have left in checking. This gives me a daily idea of where I'm at. For long-term expenses, I have $100 auto-deducted from every paycheck (after 401k deductions and such) tossed into an emergency fund. This paid off handsomly recently when my old motorcycle bought the farm, and I had to buy a new one. When I'm grocery shopping, I generally stick with $5/meal. I'm prone to splurging on food, like weird snack nuts or pre-cooked chicken or sandwiches. When my bill ends up $70 for just 2 bags of groceries, I know to trim back and monitor my splurging again. For the most part, sticking with a standard grocery list / diet helps a lot: beans, eggs, lean proteins on sale, frozen veggies, etc. As a guy, dating can be a major expense. Dinner and a movie has gone from $30 for a whole evening to $80+ ($50 for dinners, $25/ea + $15/ea for tickets). My gf knows I like to splurge on dinner and a movie on the weekend, and occasionally we splurge on other once-in-a-blue-moon things, like a small trip or event. But, those things can quickly chew through any money you have. Being a chronic bar hopper (which neither my gf nor I am) can also eat your money like popcorn, since many drinks are $5-10/ea. I love to cut back on the day-to-day stuff if it lets me splurge occasionally. But, making sure I have automated withdrawals tossing money into investments and emergency funds is the best thing I've done. You don't have to be anal retentive about tracking your money. You just have to keep a day-to-day idea of what your'e spending and where it's going.

blah blah of TX 1:18PM May 22, 2012

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