The 7 Biggest Home Price Negotiation Blunders

June 5, 2008 RSS Feed Print

With the national real estate market in a deep slump—and homeowners scrambling to unload properties—consumers are in a great position to save some cash by bidding down asking prices. "It's a feeding frenzy," says Glenn Kelman, the CEO of online brokerage firm Redfin. But in the often-complex process of buying a home, negotiations can be tricky, and people considering doing so should make sure they understand what they are getting into. U.S. News spoke with five negotiation experts and came up with a list of the seven biggest mistakes you can make in negotiating to buy a house.

1. Not understanding the seller. In a home price negotiation, it's essential to look at the deal from the opposite side of the table. "You want to make best use of the seller's fears," says Ed Brodow, a negotiation expert and the author of Negotiation Boot Camp. "So the question is: What are the pressures on the seller of this house?" Sellers today could be facing any number of anxieties. Perhaps the local housing market is even weaker than the sluggish national one. Maybe the seller has landed a job in another city and already bought a home there. He or she could even be facing bankruptcy. Any information you can obtain about the local real estate market or the seller will strengthen your negotiating position. When Steven Cohen, president of the Negotiation Skills Co., first visited a home that was for sale in 1981, he noticed that the property had no furniture or heat. "That gave us a little bit of a sense of the degree to which the people wanted out and gave us a heck of a lot more bargaining power," Cohen says. "We offered tons less than what they were asking." The sellers eventually accepted the offer.

2. Forgetting your homework. Some of this needed information is readily available. You can get the sale prices of comparable homes and discover how long certain listings have been on the market from a real estate professional, a multiple listing service, or an online resource, says Joshua Dorkin, the founder and CEO of real estate networking and information site BiggerPockets.com. To take the temperature of a local market, identify a couple of good real estate blogs and click through them daily. To find out the seller's motivations, try getting in touch with him or her directly. Some will refer you to an agent, but others will chat candidly. In addition, "researching who lives in and around the home you're [considering] buying is of the utmost importance," Dorkin says. By speaking with neighbors, you'll gain a sense of what life is like in the community and perhaps even pick up some insight into why the sellers are moving. "You can never have enough information," says Jim Camp, the author of No: The Only Negotiating System You Need for Work and Home.

3. Showing your cards. While looking for information on the seller, it's important to divulge as little about yourself as possible. Any knowledge you provide could be used by the seller as leverage. "For example, you may want to pay cash for the house, but the sellers don't have to know that," Camp says. If you are capable of paying cash, the sellers may hold firm to their asking price, he adds, "because it means that you are a person of means."

4. Not having options. When you begin negotiating on a specific property, make sure you have identified several other homes you'd be happy with as well. "Never negotiate without options," Brodow says. "If you find a perfect house, find another house so you are not so desperate to buy [the first] house that you wind up giving in to whatever the seller wants." Furthermore, it's to your advantage to tactfully—either directly or through your agent—let the sellers know that theirs is not the only property you are considering.

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This was actually very helpful to me as a seller...Now I know the tactics that my potential buyers may be using. :) Thank you.

Hannah of NH 2:43PM January 24, 2012

Is there something similar for negotiating with a builder while buying a new home. Here are my comments on this article:

1. If you know the seller is in a difficult situation, you should hardly be using that information to exploit him/her. Use it to get to a fair price - fine. Remember - bad karma will get you somewhere else.

2. Question - how does one go about finding comparable price of a home in a new development where no much new is available in the immediate vicinity except homes being offered by your builder.

3. That is interesting point. Couldn't you negotiate better by telling them that you do not need a mortagage and will not take the mortgage and your budget is only $xxx,x00.00.

4. Yes - dead on. Not having options puts you in the same situation as seller would be in #1. It is just a house - you can always find another one ;-)

5. Meeting in person is the least you can do. For that price, I can even unite with their soul ;-)

6. Specific number - that is hard to do even for a car. Although, it will be nice to know what is a good number :-)

7. Agreed, if it is within my budget. On the other hand, if I am paying cash. $5000 is still a lot of money and if I can't afford it - then I can certainly afford some ego and use it to walk away ;-)

Yash of MD 12:24AM January 01, 2012

We just made an offer 27,000 less than asking, in hopes that eventually we will meet in the middle without too much stress. WE come up 15 thousand, they come down 14 thousand. Now we plan to re counter at with 8,000 more. Does this sound like we are working toward meeting in the middle. It is a divorce situation, and we know how much was paid for the house. We want a fair deal, but truly don't want to rip anyone off. We are selling our house too, so we can relate with both sides. :-)

Marc of KY 11:23AM August 17, 2011

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